Live freely. Connect deeply. Lead with clarity.
Rianne Sibma, executive counselor & coach
About Rianne Sibma
Working internationally with leaders, founders & entrepreneurial couples | Founder van de methode Eqrian®
Lead from clarity. Relate from presence. Grow without losing yourself.
You’ve built success. You carry others. You take responsibility.
But beneath the roles and results, you know there’s something more essential:
The way you lead, relate and decide — all of it is shaped by unconscious dynamics.
Patterns you didn’t choose, but still live out.
That’s where I come in.
How Others Experience Rianne’s Guidance
“Rianne’s guidance with horses helped me break through inner blocks and discover my own strength. She creates a safe space where you can truly be yourself. Incredibly valuable!”
Woman, M.S
My work begins where performance ends
I guide leaders and entrepreneurial couples through strategic recalibration — not by adding pressure, but by helping them shift what drives it.
My clients aren’t broken. They’re often powerful, self-aware, and deeply responsible. But even the strongest systems can drift off course when loyalty, leadership and legacy get tangled.
Through precise, respectful work, I help you see what’s underneath — and move from reaction to conscious position.
I work systemically, somatically and relationally. Always strategically.
met paarden, met precisie, met respect
I developed the Eqrian® Method to bring together the most effective lenses I’ve found:
Ik combineer:
Systemic positioning — seeing the unconscious loyalties shaping how you lead, relate and take space
Body-based intelligence — learning to read what your nervous system already knows
Equine feedback — using the mirror of horses to reveal leadership dynamics and energetic patterns
Internal Family Systems (IFS/IFIO) — meeting inner protectors with clarity and respect
Real-world integration — shifting from insight to embodied, sustainable change
This work doesn’t just shift how you feel. It shifts how you lead.
Who I work with
My clients are ambitious, sensitive, and often in charge of complex systems — businesses, families, or both.
They seek counsel that’s not generic or “soft,” but intelligent, grounded, and real.
People come to me when:
Their relationship is under pressure — but not broken
Their leadership feels heavy — but still strong
Their body signals something’s off — even if their mind pushes through
Background & Credentials
Certified Traumatic Stress Program – Trauma Research Foundation (Boston)
Supervision Program with Dr. Bessel van der Kolk – TRF Boston
IFS Level I Practitioner – IFS Institute
Advanced Trauma Treatment – NICABM
Systemic Coaching & Constellation Work – Institute for Systemic Work (NL)
Registered Integrative Counselor – Dutch Academy for Psychotherapy
25+ years of experience with entrepreneurs, leadership teams and complex relational systems
I live what I teach — as co-owner of an international Friesian horse training and breeding stable. I know what it means to carry vision, work with your partner, and grow a life of depth, not just success.
Rianne in the media
Rianne Sibma is a registered member:
Persoonlijke AGB: 90119237 | Praktijk Eqrian: 90094823